Showing posts with label Wellesley. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Wellesley. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 30

Be Ignorant, Be Silent, Be Thick: Melissa Harris-Perry's Wellesley College Commencement Speech

Many of you have probably heard your fair share of graduation speeches over the last few weeks, but I couldn't resist posting this video of Melissa Harris-Perry's speech at Wellesley's graduation this year.



Some of my favorite parts:

"Don't nod and smile unless you're happy and agree."

"Don’t let your voice do that high-pitched thing at the end that sounds like you’re asking a question when really you’re making a statement."

"You’re going to miss a new syllabus. You’re going to miss someone handing you a piece of paper full of things you didn’t know about; the exquisite moment of utter ignorance just before the learning begins."

"Ignorance is not your enemy. Only complacency with ignorance is to be resisted."

"Never become so enamored of your own smarts that you stop signing up for life’s hard classes."

"Women’s education is very much about finding your voice, about sharing your ideas freely, about battling the boys. But there is an enormous difference between being silenced and choosing to be silent. When you choose to be silent, to quiet it down, to listen, you’ve actually exercised the other part of voice – the part that makes your voice sound like something."

"In a world that teaches women to be thin, be thick. Thin women stand on the sidelines, they’re critical, they’re removed, they’re barely committed. But thick people pitch tents in a park, with the belief that social action can change an entire global system of economic injustice. Thin citizens vote. Thick citizens run for office. Thick leaders listen, learn, and correct. Thin women look great in bikinis. Thick women look terrific in history books."

Tuesday, February 28

Shit Wendys Say - Part II



Just as funny as the first one! Shit Wellesley Women Say, part deux.

Monday, February 20

Wellesley Women: Women Who Will....Make Memes

By now, you've probably seen this feminist meme somewhere on the internet:


But have you seen this one?! 

 
This is the original meme, from the 1909 Wellesley College yearbook. Wellesley women are such trendsetters!

Wednesday, February 1

Shit Wendys Say



It was only a matter of time before someone made a "Shit Wellesley Women Say" video. And here it is! It couldn't be more spot on.

I hope they make a second version with more fun stereotypical things Wellesley ladies say, especially the often-used, "My parents don't pay $50,000 a year to this school so that I have to x" or "I'm offended!"

Tuesday, December 6

Smart Girls At the Party!*

College Prowler has published a list of colleges with the "smartest women." I have no idea what it is actually based on but....Wellesley is number 3!

Smart girls rock :-)
* Title completely stolen from Amy Poehler's awesome show.

Monday, October 10

Speaking of Wellesley....


This weekend, I returned to my beloved Wellesley with my roommates from first year, A and N. We had a blast walking around the campus, reminiscing, and having Sunday Sundaes in the dining hall.


best roomies ever

Thursday, October 6

An Ode To Wellesley and Single-Sex Schools

Wellesley College president H. Kim Bottomly (affectionately referred to as KBot) recently wrote an awesome op-ed for the NYTimes defending same-sex education.

In it she says:
What in my view is irrefutable — given the extraordinary success and satisfaction of Wellesley graduates — is that women’s colleges are a vital and vibrant part of the educational landscape and should be offered to all young women as a choice. I know that our graduates (among them, Hillary Rodham Clinton, the secretary of state, and Madeleine K. Albright, a former secretary of state) would confirm that single-sex education helped give them the confidence and skills to contribute significantly in all arenas.
Go KBot!

Her piece was a response to a report called, "The Psuedoscience of Single Sex Schooling,"authored by the founders of a nonprofit called the American Council for CoEducational Schooling, which will soon be published in Science magazine. In the report, the authors claim that single-sex education is misguided, ineffective, and may actually increase gender stereotyping. It notes that single-sex schooling is on the rise (I'm assuming they are referring to a trend in single-sex charter high schools), and that much of the trend is based on assumptions that girls and boys learn differently and thus need separate classrooms and different curriculum.

I agree with the authors of the report that an idea that girls and boys learn dramatically differently and need different classrooms is both misguided and potentially harmful for girls. And I would argue that any single-sex schooling based on an idea that boys need to be free of the "distractions" that girls pose is also harmful (to girls especially).

But I strongly disagree with their conclusion that single-sex schooling, in general, is ineffective. The report spends most of its time examining all-boys schools and then applies their conclusions to all-girls schools, without taking into account the sexism girls and women face in our educational institutions.

Wellesley - the best all-women's college!!! - is disproportionately represented in politics, business, and Wall Street. And outside of those predominately male fields, generally kick ass at pretty much anything they try and do. Our list of alumnae is impressive!! They are truly women who make a difference in the world.

But it isn't just that they were smart upon arrival, although I suspect that every woman who attends Wellesley is Type A and driven enough to pick an all-women's school (her education) over boys (even though it is relatively easy to find men to socialize with and date while at Wellesley) that it is a kind of self-selecting group. I really credit it to the atmosphere of Wellesley, which is such a rich, nurturing environment for women. It is a place where it is cool to be smart and driven. A place where women talk about what kind of nonprofit they're going to start and what firm they're going to ibank with instead of getting married and having babies (although those conversations happen too). Like KBot says, it is an institution that gives women the confidence and skills they need to contribute to society. And contribute they do - I am endlessly amazed and inspired by what my fellow alums are doing with their lives.

I loved Wellesley. I credit it with turning me into the woman I am today and think it was the best decision I ever made. I am so thankful for my time there, and thankful to KBot for writing her op-ed piece, because I hope single-sex schools are here to stay, to help future generations of women become "women who will."

P.S. Shout out to my Momma, who first told me I should apply to Wellesley. A remark I replied to by rolling my eyes and screaming, "Mommmmmmmmm. You can't lock me up in a convent forever!!!!! God. I am NOOOOOOTTTTTTT going to an all-girl's school!!!!!!" Also shout out to my daddy, who encouraged me to go there and to pursue a liberal arts degree (admittedly before he thought I would major in Women's Studies).

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